Saturday, March 3, 2018

Book Club Experience


Wednesday AM Book Club

Introduction

I observed the Wednesday AM Book Club in February.  I was at the library selecting books for the Senior Outreach program and stumbled upon the book club meeting.  Although I had not read the book discussed, Swans of 5th Ave by Melanie Benjamin, I was instantly drawn to this casual, informal book discussion and sat as an observer for the duration of the two hour meeting.

Atmosphere

The Wednesday AM Book Club is one of four book clubs offered for adults at the Zionsville Public Library and meets once a month in the 2nd floor Conversation Corner; the southeast corner of the fiction section, a secluded corner of the second floor providing comfortable chairs, side tables and natural light resonating from a wall of large windows, and warm light from additional table lamps.  The friendly, welcoming conversation and occasional chuckles among the seven participants attracted my interest immediately.  An adult services librarian selects the books and leads the discussion.  The book selections are listed for the next month on the Book Club Bulletin Board located in between the teen and adult departments, and noted in the library’s Featured Events monthly brochure.  All participants attending the book club had read the book and were eager to meet and discuss.  Refreshments were not provided at this book club, although two other library adult book clubs do offer coffee, desserts and/ or light refreshments.  Some participants did bring their own beverages to enjoy during the discussion, however. 

Discussion

The Wednesday AM Book Club meets the 2nd Wednesday of every month from 10:00am until 12 noon, “meeting format should allow two to two and one half hours,” (ilovelibraries.org).  The adult services librarian facilitates the book discussion.  The facilitator for this group did not use a prop to spur conversation, engage in a literary game to energize the group, or write questions on notecards asking the members to take turns answering as noted in suggested discussion techniques, (ilovelibraries.org).  Instead, the facilitator posed one open ended question after another, ranging from plot discussion to character development.   Contrary to book club trends requesting “reading group guides and other supplementary material both by and about the author, and…direct access to writers…” the Wednesday AM Book Club did not use supplementary materials and offered only a simple,  relaxed atmosphere and an effective facilitator in which to explore Swans of 5th Ave, (Goldstein 32). 

Much of the conversation centered on the complex character of Babe Paley and her relationship with Truman Capote, “Choose a primary character and ask participants to comment on him or her,” (ilovelibraries.org).  Participants discussed at length, Paley’s perfectionist persona and her underlying identity as well as Capote’s attraction to Paley and his self-destructive behavior.  The character traits of Paley and Capote were thoroughly considered, participants introducing various traits to discuss.  Paley emits an aura of perfection, providing a meticulous home and physical appearance for her husband, Bill, while sharing deep secrets and perhaps her true identity with Capote.   Book club participants eagerly offered insight into Paley’s complicated character.

When the discussion slowed, the facilitator introduced an open ended question to the group and waited a moment for someone to begin the conversation.  About half of the time, participants would offer insight.  If nobody responded immediately to the open ended question, the facilitator would rephrase the question and then invite a participant by name to offer insight.  No single participant dominated the conversation at any point, although a few were more outspoken than others.  The facilitator was able to engage each participant throughout the duration of the club meeting and conversation seemed to flow smoothly.

Ending the book club meeting, the facilitator asked the group how they felt about the book; were they immediately captivated?  Did it take a while to settle into the storyline?  Was there a character or character(s) that bothered them?  All participants easily responded with their personal reflections about the book’s appeal.  Ending the discussion with participants’ considering their individual reactions to the novel provides a moment of reflection and may assist the facilitator in choosing subsequent books for the group.

Conclusion

Although just a distant observer, I appreciated the dignity and respect the facilitator provided throughout the discussion.  Avoiding ice-breaker games and imaginary scenarios, “If you were one character in this book, which one would you be?” the conversation was always relevant and comfortable.  As an observer, I did not notice or feel a sense of “collective bargaining” or the  “rise of the book clubs’ influence…to a new era in publishing” or even that the group was, in fact, a “potent network” (Goldstein 30,32).  The tone of the discussion group was welcoming, patient and genuine.  Perhaps the attendees are regulars, but the participants never strayed far from the topic of discussion and created an open environment to engage and discuss.



Works Cited

Goldstein, Bill. “Reads well With Others,” Publishers Weekly, 23 May 2005, pp. 30-34.

Litlovers.com. “Starting a Book Club.” American Library Association,        www.ilovelibraries.org/booklovers/bookclub/org, 2009-2015. Accessed 2 March 2018.

Monday, February 26, 2018

Women's Lives and Relationships Annotation

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                                                               Author:                                Elizabeth Noble

                                                                Title:      Between a Mother and Her Child

                                                                Genre:  Women’s Lives and Relationships

                                                                Publication Date:              2013

                                                                Pages:   448

                                                                Geographical Setting:     London, England

                                                                Time Period:      Present day

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Plot Summary
Isolating herself and others, Maggie Barrett grieves the unexpected death of her oldest son, Jake, pushing away her husband, Bill and teen daughter, Aly in the process.  Through her trusted sister, Liv’s unconventional answer to an ad, she enlists the help of Kate Miller, a “rent-a-granny” companion for the struggling household.  Kate seems to be the healer of all wounds, from troubled Aly and estranged Bill to desperate Maggie.  Invading privacy in search of truth, Aly discovers Kate’s secret and as the family “fixer” tries to heal her beloved rent-a-granny, Kate. 
Subject Headings
Sons, Death, Bereavement, Marriage, Fiction
Appeal
Tone/ Mood
Witty and deep:  Elizabeth Noble deeply explores every angle of the nuclear family’s division.  The reader feels the character weaknesses, nervousness and excitement at each phase of the relationships’ study, “…authors, by their intention and direction, create a range of books that deal with similar, always difficult and emotional topics,” (Saricks 157).  Saricks goes on to explain that while some authors provide only a “casual look at an issue,” others explore issues and possibilities (157).  Noble details Maggie’s anger  and then warmth with Bill, her frustration and then closeness with Aly, her love of her sister and closeness with Stan.  “Maggie knew Aly had withdrawn herself emotionally from her mother.  And, for now, it was easier not to fight it, however much it hurt,” (Noble 33).
Noble adds sarcasm and light humor to intense situations, strengthening the emotional link between the readers and the characters, while providing a very personal look inside the characters’ lives, “Don’t make me [Aly] laugh.  I’m trying to pee on a very narrow stick [pregnancy test] here….” (Noble 298).
Characterization
This genre explores the life of female protagonist and her relationships (Saricks 157): Between a Mother and Her Child explores the life of fragile Maggie, the protagonist, and her complex relationship with her distant daughter, challenged son, beloved sister, estranged husband, live in granny Kate and boyfriend.  Throughout the trials and drama, Maggie learns how to love her children in the face of disaster and reassure them in the midst of unavoidable change, “The love tween a mother and her child, or between a father and his child, cannot ever, ever be changed.  Not by anything…nothing,” (Noble 379).
Story Line
“Novels in this genre examine themes of concern special to women,” (Saricks 158).  In this domestic drama, Elizabeth Noble celebrates the family life of Maggie and her children through grieving the death of Jake, accepting the birth of Carrie’s baby [Bill’s new girlfriend], , “Our [Maggie and Bill] lives are not connected in this way anymore…” (Noble 311), and fearing Aly’s possible pregnancy, “I [Maggie] could never hate you, silly girl.  Little thing called unconditional love,” (Noble 293).
Style/ Language
Conversational dialogue and the inclusion of emails and letters, aide in telling the personal story of the central characters, (Saricks 156).  Noble uses Liv’s bouncy, energetic character to lighten the mood; upon arrival from Australia, Live declares that she’s, “Smelly, knackered and starving” (Noble 62). Aly and her boyfriend, Ryan, correspond almost exclusively through emails  (Noble 102) and Kate writes a heart-felt letter to her disconnected daughter, Rebecca, expressing regret and hope, “I’m [Kate] writing for the first time in a long time because I hope that maybe there’s a chance you feel a little differently  about me and about what has happened between us,” (Noble 355).
Read Alikes
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 Home front(2012) by Kristin Hannah
Jolene and Michael, in a fragile12- year marriage, are forced to endure Jolene’s tour of duty to Iraq.  Michael, angry that Jolene has been deployed, leaving him to juggle parenthood with his legal practice, begins to understand all that he has taken for granted when Jolene’s helicopter crashes.  Similar to Between a Mother and Her Child, the protagonist in Home Front must rebuild herself and her relationships following disaster. 
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 The Bright Forever (2006) by Lee Martin
The Mackey family, glassworks owners and envied in their small Indiana town for their wealth and good looks encounter unspeakable tragedy when their nine year old Katie Mackey rides her bike to the library, but never returns.  In a community of shady neighbors with questionable histories, Katie’s older brother desperately tries to gain his father’s praise while seeking the truth behind Katie’s death.  Similar to Between a Mother and Her Child, in The Bright Forever, a family is torn apart with the death of their young child and a sibling struggles to mend the wounds.  
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Two BY Two (2017) by Nicholas Sparks
Russell Green has a seemingly perfect life; a beautiful wife, loving young daughter, successful career and large home, until, unexpectedly, Russell finds himself thrown into the role of single parenthood and jobless.   Like Between a Mother and Her Child, Two By Two is a story of a family adjusting to extreme change and the ever powerful unconditional love.

Works Cited
Noble, Elizabeth.  Between a Mother and Her Child, Berkley Books, 2012.
Saricks, Joyce. The Readers’ Advisory Guide to Genre Fiction, American Library Association, 2009.






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